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"Kengkawan.. Nie aku ada satu cerita ngeri aku nak share ngan korang.. Kisah nie berlaku kat kawan aku kat Ipoh la..
Kawan aku nama dia Ahmad.. Dia nie kerja kilang ikut shif.. Dia nie shif petang so balik tengah malam la. Satu malam tu dia lalu la kat jalan nak ghi airport kat Ipoh nie.. Then sampai kat satu Masjid.. Depan Masjid nie ada tempat sampah.. ala tempat sampah busuk gile.. tapi malam tu tempat tu jadi wangi.. Then ada sorang pompuan pakai baju serba putih tahan dia. Kata nya nak tumpang sampai kat hujung kampung.
So yang kawan aku nie bagi la tumpang. So pompuan nie pun naik la.. Dia punya wangi punya la semacam aje.. Then kawan aku nie dah naik seram sejuk.. So sampai la kat satu jalan yang berbukit so dia nie press la minyak moto dia coz nak cepat dan dah rasa semacam bawak pompuan nie.. Lepas aje kawasan bukit tu.. Dia rasa ringan aje moto dia.. So dia paling la muka dia kat belakang.. Tengok-tengok pompuan tu dah hilang.. Tapi masih wangi.. Dia nie apa lagi terus pecut moto balik ghumah.. Terus masuk selimut tidoq bawah katil.
So esok tu dia gi keja lagi.. Balik ikut jalan yang sama jugak. Sampai kat tempat semalam, pompuan semalam ada lagi kat situ. Then dia nie dah naik bulu roma terus pecut moto.. Tapi moto dia macam tak nak jalan bila betul-betul depan pompuan tu.. Apa nak buat dah terstop kat situ.. Pompuan tu celapak naik (tumpang la tu) moto si Ahmad nie.. So dalam keadaan seram sejuk Ahmad nie terus aje bawak moto tanpa tengok belakang sambil baca ayat apa yang patut.. Sampai tempat berbukit kelmarin.. Pompuan yang tumpang tu tepuk bahu si Ahmad nie so si Ahmad nie tak nak paling belakang jugak.. Pompuan nie tepuk lagi bahu dia.. So bila dah dua tiga lagi tepuk dia pun paling la.. Si pompuan tu masih kat belakang moto dia.. Then pompuan tu cakap kat Ahmad cam nie "Abang, jangan bawak laju sangat, semalam adik jatuh tergolek kat sini".
Step1Determine whether or not you have exhausted every method available to change the outcome of the situation. Eliminate your self doubt by realizing that you have truly done everything you could and that nothing you do in the future changes what happens.
Step2Examine your fate rationally and dispassionately. Deconstruct the situation and identify the pros and cons of your fate. Ask yourself how you would feel about your fate if it belonged to someone else.
Step3Let go of your desire to change the situation. Just because you know logically that you cannot change things doesn't mean you won't continue to try to think of ways to do just that. Acknowledge that you are not responsible and that the failure or success is beyond your control.
Step4Identify the positives associated with the outcome you expect and focus on them. Knowing that to experience something good from the situation, however minor, helps you become more comfortable accepting your fate.
Step5Look to the future. Turn your attention to another matter that you have more control over. Distracting yourself with other thoughts helps you ride out the situation.
Step1We all know how hard life can be and how times in our lives can make us feel miserable, depressed, lonely, scared, angry, hurt and sad. There are a few things you can do to become a more positive person and to not let the negative ruin you. Step2We all run into people who are negative all the time. Sometimes, their negativity rubs off on us. What is more disturbing is when we return that negativity or pass it on to another person. The negative in this world is the evil of this world. The more positive energy everyone gains, the negative is defeated!
Step3For instance, a dad yells at his son instead of talking to him. That son then grows up to yell at his kids the same way--negativity repeated. A wife listens to the husband yell, and, although she is a positive person, the constant yelling rubs off on her. She begins yelling at her daughter and the story goes on.
Step4To turn this into a positive situation, talk to your children. Explain why what they did was wrong and what they can learn from it. There’s no need to yell. Yelling won’t work in any situation. Keep yourself in a positive environment. If family members tend to be on the negative side, gently pull them to the positive.
Step5When negative energy enters, cover it with positive: praises, rewards and appreciations for the positive things in the situation.
Step6Be a happy, healthy person. Take care of your body and it will take care of you. Eat the right foods to promote positive health! Take time out for yourself to focus on everything positive in your life. Have faith that your life is full of joy, peace and love. Everything that you feel good about now will only feel better when all of the negative is gone and only positive feelings live!
Step1Look for the best qualities of others and yourself. Take advantage of situations where you can exercise your best qualities and highlight those of others. Record your thoughts daily and review them to visualize what affects us and how. Schedule a window for quiet time each day.
Step2Give others the same dignity that you would expect to receive. Recognize that status or income levels do not make the man nor determine his value. Take time to actually hear what others have to say instead of interjecting your own personal thoughts or simply not paying attention.
Step3Become involved in what others have to say by asking sincere questions and waiting for an answer. This will enhance your relationships, allowing you to make positive contributions to a healthy friendship.
Step4Provide assistance to others when needed, going out of your way if necessary. Acts of kindness are often met with reciprocal acts of kindness. You are further demonstrating how to be a better person and reaping the rewards from your efforts while making others feel special.
Step5Empathize with others' plights or circumstances. Listening to your heart and following it instead of being judgmental contributes to your being a better person. Being honest in your dealings with others also promotes positive relationships. Problems arise when the truth is not spoken or twisted to suit one's motives. Choose your words carefully and precisely. Express yourself kindly.
Step6Develop a set of standards and live by them. Don't allow others' viewpoints to alter your code of ethics. Maintaining your personal values during difficult times will help you to be a better person.